Thursday, October 29, 2009
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must
be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking
care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have,
as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional
needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.
There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I
had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that
there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after
informing my sleepy child.
With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am
home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So
with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the
room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention
of just having a well-deserved sleep, all I heard and felt was broken
porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the
source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess
on the bedsheet and blanket!
Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged
straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a
good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short
"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were
not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I
remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any
adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from
the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me.
However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under
the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you
'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."
At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't
want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried
with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went
towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him,
while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the
bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's
room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little
buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.
A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to
focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to
most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating
from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting
impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.
However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time,
his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from
school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to
explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling
out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily
playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell
out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But
after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by
his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the
reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....
Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten
has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to
himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure,
would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud
Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's
winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in
every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my
son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's
work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was
also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to
post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise
never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that
thi s child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he
apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I
pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the
letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on
his prank, during this time of the year.
His answer, amidst his sobbing, was : The letters were for Mummy.
My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to
ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's
reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I
reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able
to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I
could reach it and I sent it all at once..."
After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to
I told my son, " Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if
you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach
mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacifi ed and calm, and soon
after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters
on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldnt help opening the
letter before they turn to ash.
And one of the letters broke my heart....
I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and the
school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did
not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was
afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went
around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of
the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was
furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell
him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he
think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in h is room. I think
we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think. But
Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my
dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you
fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see
the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appear?
After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace
the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....
For the females with children:
Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some
kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem.
Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to
the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take
care of your little precious.
For the married men:
Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even
business nor clients.
Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are
totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In
this society, no one is indispensable.
Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little
precious and your loved ones.
For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first.
With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other
things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let
your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more
than your well being.
Monday, October 19, 2009
Ni labah ni kalau urang tambunan ni.. Siopon saja! so ni baru mau test2 ni.. mau check samada sukatan betul ka nda...
Sebelum beraksi..pis dlu.. hehe..
so suda kinam.. pahit manis pula.. haha.. adeh.. isap sampai karing.. hmm. aramai tii...
suda mabuk, ntah, kepala jadi bengong.. pandai suda pigang sigup.. ntah sepa yang ajar.. haha.. nda bagus merokok.. tak baik untuk kesihatan debilang duktur..
Kawan-kawan, kalau moginum pun biar berpada-pada kio.. jangan telebih.. hehe.. bukan salah moginum, bagus tu.. tapi kalau suda telebih ( macam sia slalu kan) , banyak perkara yang tidak disedari berlaku.. bisuk pagi brabis lagi mau ingat( macam sia juga) trus ada bikin yang nda brapa ngam(macam sia laitu) trus nda mengaku( macam sia juga.. haha.. mantap sial) . So kalau mau aramai tii.. ambil dalam keadaan yang sederhana dan Just Nice..
Minum banyak, tapi mesti sentiasa bertanggung jawab( macam sia kadang2)
Pesanan ini dibawakan khas kepada anda oleh Bossing!.. haha.. mantap gitewww..
P/S: kepada yang dipatungkan muka.. bukan apa, cuma mau jaga privacy urang.. biar la sia saturang saja kana tau kuat meginum.. nda bagus imej urang dirusakkan kan.. hmm. ( ni baru la main tapis.. kalah2 lagi perfileman negara) .. so siapa yang kanal tu kana tapis muka.. hmm tiam2 ah kamu.. teda maksud apa-apa.. cuma untuk suka2 aja..
Jangan lupakan budaya kita!! ( sebenarnya ni la mesej utama dia.. ahahaha)
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
What about this?? this is the new theory of human evolution.. hehehe.i donno about this but hmm.. its funny.. so for those who having big belly.. jaga kamurang transform jadi wogok.. ahaha
Just Kidding bah.. cheersss
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Mungkin ada diantara kamu yang tidak tahu body part kamu dalam bahasa Dusun.. so sini sia mau bagi sikit Sexual lesson sama kamurang...(jangan tiragan kio.. gambar semata-mata.. teda maksud lain)ahahaha.. Gambar diatas special buat kamu semua.. Minta maaf banyak2.. sia nda sangup mau kasi tapis2 bah.. nanti nda nampak yang real punya.. mantap syiall.. ala, takan nda biasa time tingkatan 3 kan.. siap lukis lagi.. so bagi siapa2 yang nda tau bentuk body manusia yang seksi ini, ni sia kasi tingu dalam versi katun 3D untuk tatapan bersama...
Opps..nampaknya ada satu part terlupa iaitu Bulu di ehem2.. dalam bahasa Dusun dia, Togitung atau Turaut.. hmmm.. ok baiklah.. Mari kita sama2 belajar.. yeah..
AMARAN KERAS: JANGAN MENUMPUKAN MATA DI SATU BAHAGIAN SAHAJA!! SIA TAU TU.HAHAHA.. NANTI KOTUTON MATA..
Monday, October 12, 2009
Selingan petang hari.. Gud Day everyone...
Yesterday, i checked my nuffnang, and suddenly, i saw Kenny Sia trough the Nuffnang Project Alpha. Kenny Sia a great blogger and he can get 200,000 over traffics per week. Hmmm.. thats superb man! He is creative, controvesial, active, nice, informative, cute, happy go lucky, friendly and etc...He write his blog in a diffrent way, he let his mind speak freedomly.., he share information, he educate people, he critize, he show himself in blog, he is brave.. whatelse,..
In blogging, he is my icon ( tapi dia manalah kenal kat aku ni..ceh.. biasalabah kalau dia artis kan.. ahaha), but i don't intend to follow his way of blogging. I believe that we as a blogger have our own way of blogging kan.. so lets us follow our direction..
Anyone wants to enjoy Kenny Sia Blog, Please click here: http://kennysia.com
below is some video under the Project Alpha, he share some tips of blogging:
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Heart Attacks And Drinking Warm Water
For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
A cardiologist says if everyone who reads this message sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life. Read this & Send to a friend. It could save a life... So, please be a true friend and send this article to all your friends you care about.
Thanks to Mr Clarence Clay for this article.
Nature enthusiasts will definitely take pleasure in spending a day at the Kipandi Butterfly Park, located at Kampung Kipandi, Moyog—situated approximately 36 kilometers away from Kota Kinabalu city via the Penampang-Tambunan road.
The gorgeously scenic park is surrounded by the hills of the Crocker Range. Lying at 700 meters altitude, it is rich in entomofauna. Over 100 species of butterflies have been recorded in this park; among the recorded species are the Troides Brookiana (Raja Brook’s Birding), Troides Amphrysus (Golden Birding), and the Papilio Karna (Peacock’s Swalloe Tails).
The insectariums has over 800 butterfly specimens and over 1, 800 species of beetles which include many endemic species that are only found in the Crocker Range, such as the Cyclommatus Chewi. Special enclosures have also been constructed to house some of the rare and endangered species of Sabahan orchids and pitcher plants. This project is a joint collaboration with the Sabah Wildlife Department.
Plants have been saved from trees that were felled in land clearing for agricultural and developmental purposes. To date, there are as many as 400 species of native orchids, 28 species of Hoyas, and 5 species of Lipstick flowers Aeschynanthus and medicinal plants.
The park also initiates a free educational guided walk program for school children. This program is aimed at raising the awareness of the younger generations regarding the precious entomofauna of Sabah.
Source: Sabah Tourism
The Kipandi Butterfly Park is open daily from 9am to 4pm, the best time to spot butterflies are between 9am to 11am.
The Entrance Fee for this park is RM10 for each person ( expensive ow... maybe for the conservation..good one ah). Entrance Fee for non My Card Holders is RM20 each person. ( How About OM & Pilak..hehe)
This is the view from the entrance . wahh.. surrounded with natural elements. no wonder la the Butterfly like this place.
This is the map of the Kipandi Butterfly Park. Please click the image for good view. thanks.
Mr William ( Dr) and Mr Jelvy showing their talent in modeling.. haha.. both of them so talented. yeah...! ow ya, forgot to tell you, we enjoyed our photoshoot there. thanks to the photographers: Lumis, Gidong,Owin,William.
This is me and Jelvy, doing simple promo about BBKK or Buli Ba Kalo Ko.. hehehe.. Wait and see at Youtube. it will published at youtube.
Other than Butterfly, you can see diffrent types of orchids in this place. I love orchid, so i really like this place and wish to come back.. haha.. next time la lol..
haha.. pssshhh.. sempat juga sia tangkap ni.. hmm.. kacau daun tul..
For more information, please contact:
Kipandi Butterfly Park
tel: +6013 868 9830 / +6019 530 2298
fax: +6088 272 672
Friday, October 2, 2009
Alkisah ada seorg lelaki yg berusia lewat 50an dan bekerja sebagai CEO disebuah sykt yg besar di KL… Pada suatu early morning tu.. Boss ini memanggil la dia punya seketeri masuk ke opisnya..seperti biasa.. seketerinya pun masukla…
Boss: Tolong buatkan saya
Si Boss ini pun mula la cakap dia punya mukadimah.. biasa la Boss.. malas mau tulis.. cakap punya cakap.. Boss ni pun bangun.. dan berjalan-jalan pusing-pusing meja sambil tangan masuk dlm poket seluar.. 10 minit
kemudia acara mengarang ayat pun habis.. si seketeri pun mula bersuara..
Seketeri: Boss.. pagi tadikan.. masa saya nak datang ke opis..saya nampak pintu garage boss terbuka..
Boss: (dlm keadaan kelam kabut) ye ke.. tak per, nanti saya call rumah..terima kasih..( gaya bos bercakap la kunun)
Si seketeri pun blah balik ke meja dia..dan si Boss pun call rumah dia tanya wife dia..
Boss: Yang tolong tengokkan garage rumah kita..pintu dia terbuka la..
Bini: Taklah bang..baru tadi I tengok .. mana ada terbuka..
Bini: Tidakkkkk, tertutup…saya tahu la bang.
Boss: Pergi lah tengok..kalau tak terbuka Macam mana org boleh nampak??
Bini: Okay lah.. okay lah.
Setelah setengah jam kemudia.. masa Boss ni tengah relek-relek..baru dia perasan yang zip seluar dia terbuka..(dah memang perangai dia tak
suka pakai underware).. maka nampaklah…mengelabahlah si Boss ni
memikirkan macam mana nak cover malu kat seketeri dia tu..
Boss: Errr… tadi pagi masa you nampak garage I terbuka.. ada tak you nampak BMW kat dlm tu?
Seketeri: Tak.. yg I nampak cuma ada MINI COOPER ngan dua tayar depannya
So pengajarannya... pakailala seluar dalam selalu.. terutamanya kalau pigi opis.. hahahaha!
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Bila dengar GAMBIR, banyak yang suka ni kan.. haha.. Urang bilang, ada fight sama Viagra.. tapi ternyata Gambir tetap leading the way.. Lagi power dari Viagra. Time dulu-dulu, Gambir digunakan dalam bahagian perubatan terutamanya untuk menahan sakit ( Sakit luaran macam sakit gigi,bengkak gusi dan sebagainya. Ianya berfungsi seperti Ubat Bius. Ianya boleh bertahan ( Kebas ) dalam masa 2 - 6 jam ( bayangkanlah kalau seks kan.. can woman stand in 6 hours?- mati labah juga kalau di tampat c adik, 6 jam bekaras).
Gambir Sarawak dihasilkan daripada cecair yang terdapat dalam kulit kayu gambir - menurut kawan sia la.. c Wences nama dia..haha
Sekarang, ianya sangat laku dalam pasaran dan harganya bulitahan juga. Sesiapa yang mau memuaskan pasangan dalam tahap Gaban, Gunalah Gambir Sarawak.
sini ada tips pengunaan gambir untuk tujuan hubungan yang ehem-ehem:
1. Basahkan / titiskan sedikit air pada Gambir tersebut. Sapu dengan jari pada bahagian yang telah dibasahkan tadi. ( bahagian yang sewaktu dengannya labah kan...)
2. Sapukan pada kulit luaran yang dikehendaki - ehem2.. disitu gitewwww
3. Tunggu 2 - 5 minit.. anda akan mula terasa kebas..jeng..jeng.. kebas apa tu ah? hmm.. hanya sia saja yang paham.
4. Setelah kebas, kasi cuci tu bahagian yang kebas..
5. Jangan lupa simpan gambir yang telah diguna sebab buli recycle tu.. jimat kan.. hahaha
P/s: tapi menurut kawan sia juga.. ada juga keburukan gambir ni.. tapi sia nda tau betul ka nda.. nda pa la.. nanti cari kebenaran tu keburukan dia dlu.. hehehe